Contact
Discreet enquiry
Describe the occasion, the region and roughly when. Two or three sentences are enough.
How to reach us
Write to deingigolo@proton.me. Three things are useful: the occasion, roughly when, and the atmosphere you have in mind.
An email address or a phone number is enough, not both. Many prefer to give a number reachable by message, so the first exchange stays written and unpressured.
What you do not need to give
Surname, address, employer. None of that is needed to arrange an evening, and no serious service asks for it in a first message.
What happens next
We read and check the enquiry, then pass it on. From that point the contact is directly between the two of you.
FAQ
Do I need to give both email and phone?
No, either one is enough.
Is my information published anywhere?
Never. There are no public profiles.
Which languages can I write in?
English, German, French or Italian.
Contact form
What belongs in the enquiry
You don't need a long text. Region, occasion and a rough time frame are enough for a first good suggestion. If you like, add the dress code, the language of the evening and your preferred style — more calm, more humorous, very present.
The most useful lines are the ones nobody usually writes: that the evening will be in English, that you are professionally known in your city, that you want to avoid a particular district, or that you are doing this for the first time. That is exactly what changes our suggestion the most.
What happens next
Your enquiry comes to us first and is read by a person. We usually reply within a day, mostly with two to four suitable profiles and a short note on why we suggest those. If nothing really fits, we say so openly.
Only once you have decided do we make the introduction. From there the exchange is direct between you, by email, WhatsApp or phone. The whole process is described on how it works.
Reachable without exposing your private life
Email or phone is enough — you decide which one we use. Many clients set up a separate number or a dedicated email address just for this. It takes a few minutes and keeps private life and enquiry cleanly apart. We recommend it explicitly; more on that in staying discreetly reachable.
We keep only what the matching requires. No account, no registration, no public visibility. If you want your details deleted, write us a line. Specifics in the privacy policy.
Prefer to write directly?
The form is the fastest route, but not the only one. You can also reach us directly at deingigolo@proton.me. Use is restricted to adults.
Still unsure? The FAQ has 25 answers on process, discretion, costs and the legal position. Who is available is in the profiles.