How it works: discreet matching in 3 steps

Step 1: what belongs in a good enquiry

You don't need a long text. Five details are enough for us to make genuinely suitable suggestions: city and date, the occasion (dinner, event, wedding, business appointment, trip), the rough time frame, the dress code and your preferred style — more calm, more humorous, very present.

If something matters to you that nobody usually asks about, write it down. For example: that the evening will be in English, that you are professionally known in your city, that you want to avoid a particular district, or that you are doing this for the first time. Those are exactly the sentences that change our suggestion the most.

And what you don't need: no account, no registration, no profile, no photo of yourself. A first name is enough, and even that is optional.

Step 2: what we check before anything moves

Every enquiry comes to us first and is read by a person, not a filter. We check who is genuinely available in your region and time window, which languages are actually at working level, and which manner suits your occasion.

You then get a selection, not a list. Usually two to four profiles with a short note on why we suggest those particular ones. If nothing really fits, we say so openly instead of sending you something.

How fast that goes depends on the region. In Zurich, 20 of the 25 companions cover the area, and short-notice appointments are realistic there. In Geneva there are two, because French and English are a requirement — there, lead time pays off.

Step 3: how the contact is handed over

Only once you have decided do we put you and the companion in touch. From that point the exchange is direct: by email, WhatsApp or phone, whichever you prefer. We stay reachable in the background but don't interfere in your arrangements.

One practical tip many clients use: set up a separate number or a dedicated email address just for this. It takes a few minutes and is the simplest way to keep private life and enquiry cleanly apart. More on that in staying discreetly reachable.

Whatever you agree after that, you settle directly between yourselves. We don't set prices and take no share of a meeting.

Why the process is built this way

The Swiss market asks for seriousness and calm, not speed. That is why we don't work with public self-presentation but with structured steps. Three decisions behind it are deliberate:

No image catalogues. A photo says nothing about how someone reads a room or whether he respects boundaries. Our profiles describe bearing, manner and languages — the points where an evening actually succeeds or fails.

No account. A registration creates data nobody needs and a login stored somewhere. Neither fits an offer whose core is discretion.

No commission on meetings. The platform is funded by subscriptions from the listed companions. A commission would create the incentive to bring about as many meetings as possible rather than the most suitable ones. How we are funded is set out openly on how we are funded.

What happens if it doesn't fit

There is no entitlement to a match, and saying so is more honest than claiming otherwise. Sometimes the date is too tight, sometimes the language requirement is too narrow, sometimes the first exchange simply doesn't feel right.

In most cases there are then two routes: a different date, or a different place. Many companions cover several regions — the Zurich–Winterthur–St. Gallen axis, for instance, or Geneva and Lausanne. An appointment is therefore often a question of location rather than availability.

And if you want to end the evening, you end it. No discussion and no justification. Stating clear boundaries in advance makes it easier for both sides.

Next step

If you are ready, it goes through the contact form. If you want to see who is available first, that is in the profiles. Common questions on discretion, costs and the legal position are in the FAQ.